Escort Terms Explained: An A to Z of Escort Abbreviations

Escort terms are the short codes and phrases used on escort profiles to show where a lady meets clients, the style of booking she enjoys and what she is happy to include. Most are abbreviations, such as GFE (girlfriend experience), OWO (oral without) or DFK (deep French kissing). Below are the escort terms you are most likely to see, grouped by type, each with a plain one-line meaning.

A word before the list. Escort terminology describes a lady’s preferences, not a promise. Our rates are for time and escortship; anything else is a private matter between consenting adults, and she can decline anything, at any point. If a term isn’t clear, ask the concierge before you book rather than during the booking.

How to read escort terms on a profile

Every profile on our escorts page lists the services that lady is open to, and each service has its own page showing everyone who lists it. The full set is on the services index. Where a term needs more than a sentence, there’s a separate guide, linked in the tables below.

Some services appear twice, marked “giving” or “receiving”. These describe her side of it, so “spanking (giving)” means she does the spanking.

Booking and meeting terms

Term	Meaning
Incall	You visit her, usually at her private apartment. Most of ours are in central and west London. See incall escorts and incall vs outcall.
Outcall	She comes to you, most often at a hotel. It costs a little more because she travels. See outcall escorts.
Dinner date	A longer booking, usually around three hours, that starts with a meal out. More in dinner dates and overnights.
Overnight	Usually about eight hours together, often with dinner, sleep and breakfast. Best arranged a day or two ahead.
Party girl	A sociable lady who enjoys a drink, music and a lively evening. It describes her temperament and never implies anything illegal. See party girl escorts.
Travel companion	An escort who joins you on a trip, in the UK or abroad. It needs plenty of notice, so speak to the concierge early.

Style and escortship terms

Term	Meaning
GFE	Girlfriend experience: a relaxed, affectionate booking that feels like a date, usually with kissing. See GFE escorts or read what GFE means.
PSE	Porn star experience: a livelier, more adventurous style than GFE, always agreed beforehand. See PSE escorts and PSE explained.
Role play	Acting out an agreed scenario or character, often with an outfit. See role play and role play ideas.
Striptease	A slow, playful undress, sometimes to music. See striptease.

Kissing: FK and DFK

Term	Meaning
FK	French kissing: affectionate kissing that stays gentle. See FK escorts.
DFK	Deep French kissing: longer, open-mouthed, more passionate kissing. See DFK escorts and FK vs DFK explained.

Oral and intimate escort abbreviations

Term	Meaning
69	Both partners giving oral at the same time. See 69 and 69 meaning.
A-levels	British escort slang for anal sex, listed by fewer ladies. See A-level and what A-levels means.
CIF	Come in face (sometimes written COF): how an encounter ends. See CIF and CIF meaning.
CIM	Come in mouth: the client finishes during oral. See CIM and CIM meaning.
COB	Come on body: the client finishes on her body. See COB and COB meaning.
OWO	Oral without, meaning oral sex without a condom. Its opposite is OWC, oral with a condom. See OWO and OWO meaning.
Rimming	Oral contact around the anus, listed as rimming (receiving) or rimming (giving). See rimming meaning.
Prostate massage	Internal massage of the prostate, usually offered within a massage. See prostate massage and our prostate massage guide.

Massage terms

Term	Meaning
Massage	A relaxing massage as part of the booking, from gentle to firm. See massage.
Body to body	She massages you using her body rather than just her hands. See body to body massage and body to body explained.
Nuru	A Japanese style of body to body massage using a smooth, odourless gel. See nuru massage and our nuru guide.
Tantric	A slow, sensual massage built around breathing, light touch and anticipation. See tantric massage and tantric massage explained.

Duos, couples and group terms

Term	Meaning
Duo	Two escorts booked together, only in pairings they have already agreed to. See duo, our duos and trios and the duo escorts guide.
Bi duo	A duo where the two ladies are also intimate with each other. See bi duo.
Couples	An escort who is happy to see a couple together. See couples and couples bookings.
MMF	Two men and one woman. See MMF and MMF and FFM meaning.

Fetish and kink terms

Term	Meaning
BDSM	An umbrella term for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and related play, always within agreed limits. See BDSM.
Domination	She takes control, anything from teasing to strict. See domination and domination and submission.
Submissive	She takes the submissive role and lets you lead, within limits she sets. See submissive and our guide to submission.
Fetish	A broad label for a particular interest, such as stockings, heels or uniforms. See fetish.
Foot worship	Attention focused on her feet. See foot worship and foot worship explained.
Spanking	Listed as spanking (giving) or spanking (receiving).
WS	Watersports, meaning urine play. See WS (giving) or WS (receiving), and WS meaning.
Being filmed (with mask)	She agrees to a private recording for your own use, with her face covered. Agree the details clearly first. See being filmed.

What escort terminology doesn’t tell you

A list of services is a starting point. It can’t say how a lady feels on a given day, and it’s never a contract. Anything intimate is her choice in the moment, and good manners count for more than any abbreviation. Our guide to escort etiquette covers the unwritten rules.

It also pays to book with an agency that knows who its escorts are. Every lady on our site has been met in person and her photos checked against her, which is what verified escorts should mean. UK law makes it an offence to pay for sexual services from anyone subjected to force, threats or deception, even unknowingly; is escorting legal in the UK explains the rest.

New to all this? Start with what an escort is, see who is available today, or message the concierge from the booking page.