Escort Etiquette: A Guide for Your First Time Booking

Good escort etiquette comes down to respect: be on time, be clean, pay her at the start without fuss, and accept that she sets her own boundaries. Don’t haggle over rates, and don’t feel you need to tip. If it’s your first time with an escort, those few habits will make you a welcome client and the booking far more enjoyable for you both.

First time with an escort: what to expect

Nerves are normal, and she will have met plenty of first-timers before you. Most bookings begin with a few minutes of conversation, perhaps a drink, and settling the payment. She’ll put you at ease. You don’t need a plan or a script; be yourself and be polite. It’s perfectly fine to say it’s your first time. It helps her set the pace, and plenty of clients do.

When it’s your first time booking an escort, read our step-by-step guide on how to book an escort before you call. It covers choosing, contacting us and confirmation. And if profile abbreviations are a mystery, our escort terms glossary explains them in plain English.

Escort etiquette when you book

• Be clear and brief when you contact us: her name, where, when and how long.
• Don’t ask for explicit details by message or phone. What happens during your time together is a private matter between consenting adults.
• Don’t book several ladies “just in case” and cancel the rest. If you need to cancel, tell us early; there’s no charge with reasonable notice.
• Give accurate details: the right hotel, the right room number and a realistic time.

Why hygiene matters

Shower shortly before she arrives, or before you leave for an incall. Brush your teeth, trim your nails and put on clean clothes. It’s basic courtesy, she will notice, and it sets the tone for everything that follows. At an incall she’ll be happy for you to freshen up when you arrive; just ask.

Timing and punctuality

Arrive on time for an incall, not early, as she may still be getting ready. For an outcall, be ready when she arrives, with your phone nearby. The booking runs from the agreed start, so a late start on your side means less time together rather than a later finish. If you’d like more time, ask early, since she may have another booking afterwards.

Phones and distractions

Put your phone on silent and leave it face down. Taking calls or checking emails during a booking eats into your own time and can come across as dismissive. If you’re expecting something urgent, mention it at the start; she’ll understand.

Paying discreetly at the start

Pay her at the start of the booking, before anything else. Have the exact amount ready, usually in cash, and hand it over without fuss, or leave it in an envelope where she can see it. Don’t make her ask. Once it’s done, money doesn’t need to come up again. Rates are for time and escortship, and our guide to escort prices in London shows what’s typical.

Respecting her boundaries

A profile lists what a lady may be open to, not a menu of guarantees. Everything is agreed between two consenting adults, and she can decline anything at any time, including something listed on her profile. If she says no, accept it graciously. Never pressure, bargain or push. Our ladies choose their own bookings, and her comfort and safety come first.

Keep drinking moderate, and leave anything illegal out of it entirely. A clear head makes for better company on both sides.

Being a good guest at an incall

Her apartment is a private home. Arrive quietly, don’t linger in the hallway or on the stairs, and keep your voice down if neighbours are about. Use the bathroom she shows you, leave it as you found it, and don’t wander into other rooms. When it’s time to go, leave promptly; she may have another guest due.

Hosting an outcall

If she’s coming to you, make the space welcoming. Tidy up, have a clean towel ready and offer her a glass of water when she arrives. Make sure she can find you easily: the correct room number, clear directions and your phone switched on. For hotels, our guide to hotel escort bookings covers reception and key cards.

Conversation and manners

Treat her as you would anyone you’re meeting for the first time. Ask how her day has been, listen, and keep the conversation easy. Avoid prying questions about her private life or why she chose this work; she’ll share what she wants to. Compliments are welcome, crude remarks are not.

No haggling, and tipping isn’t expected

Rates are set by each escort and shown on her profile. Asking for a discount, at the door or by message, is poor form and puts everyone in an awkward position. If the rate doesn’t suit your budget, choose a shorter booking, consider incall instead of outcall, or ask us to suggest someone else.

Tipping isn’t expected. The rate is the rate. If you’d like to show appreciation, kind words, good manners and booking her again say far more.

Privacy works both ways

Don’t take photos, don’t press for her real name or personal number, and don’t try to arrange to meet her outside the agency. She is discreet about you, so return the favour. On our side, we keep only the number you contacted us from; our guide to privacy and discretion explains the rest.

At the end of the booking

Thank her, let her leave on time (or leave on time yourself at an incall), and that’s it. If you enjoyed her company, tell us when you next book. You can also see what other clients have said on our reviews page.

Knowing the lady you book is working by her own choice matters, legally as well as ethically, and our guide is escorting legal in the UK? explains why. When you’re ready, browse our London escorts, check who is available today, or contact us to book.