Prostate Massage: What It Is and What to Expect

A prostate massage is the gentle stimulation of the prostate, a small gland that sits just below the bladder in men. It can be done externally, by pressing gently on the perineum (the area of skin between the legs, just behind the scrotum), or internally, with a gloved and well-lubricated finger. It has a long history in medicine, and many men also find it deeply relaxing and pleasurable. With an escort it’s a specialist service: agreed in advance, done slowly, with careful hygiene and plenty of communication.

What is a prostate massage?

The prostate is roughly the size of a walnut and forms part of the male reproductive system, producing some of the fluid in semen. It’s surrounded by sensitive nerve endings, which is why gentle, patient pressure on or near it can produce strong sensations. A prostate massage is simply that pressure applied with care, usually as part of a longer, relaxing massage rather than as a standalone event.

The medical side of prostate massage

Doctors examine the prostate as a routine part of men’s health checks, and for many years prostate massage was used as a treatment for chronic prostatitis. It’s far less common in medicine today, but the medical history explains why the term is widely known.

A sensual prostate massage is not a health treatment and shouldn’t replace one. If you have pain, bleeding, haemorrhoids, a known prostate condition or recent surgery in that area, speak to your GP before booking. This guide is general information, not medical advice.

Prostate massage as a sensual service

Ladies who are comfortable offering it list prostate massage on their profiles. It’s usually combined with another massage, such as a slow tantric massage, where the relaxed pace suits it well. Many men start with the external approach only, which is gentler and a good way to find out whether it’s for you. Our guide to erotic massage in London explains how the main massage styles compare.

Our rates are for time and escortship. Anything intimate is a private matter between consenting adults, and she can decline anything she isn’t comfortable with, even if it’s listed on her profile.

Hygiene and preparation

• Shower thoroughly before the massage begins. She’ll appreciate it, and you’ll relax more.
• Use the toilet beforehand and avoid a heavy meal in the hours before.
• She will use disposable gloves and plenty of lubricant. This is normal and expected, not a sign of anything.
• She’ll lay down towels and keep wipes to hand, so there’s nothing for you to organise.

Consent and communication

This is a service where talking matters more than usual. Mention it when you book, so the concierge only suggests ladies who are happy to offer it. When you meet, tell her if it’s your first time and whether you’d prefer to stay with the external approach.

During the massage, speak up. Simple words work best: “slower”, “lighter”, “that’s perfect”, “stop”. A good masseuse will go very gradually and check in with you. Either of you can stop at any point, for any reason, and that’s completely fine. The same principles of clear limits and easy signals run through our guide to domination and submission.

Booking a prostate massage in London

An incall is often the most comfortable choice, because her room is already set up with towels and a good shower. Browse incall escorts or the prostate massage listing, choose a lady and call or WhatsApp from the booking page. Tell us her name, the time, how long, and that you’d like a prostate massage included. We confirm, usually within 15 minutes, and you can check who’s available today if you’d like to go soon.

Allow time: an hour incall is from £200 (most around £300), and many clients book two hours, around £500, so nothing feels rushed. For unfamiliar profile terms, see our guide to escort terms, and for the general courtesies, our guide to escort etiquette.