BDSM

BDSM escorts in London: what to expect

Limits first

Good BDSM is built on talking before anything starts. Tell her what interests you and what you’d rather avoid, and listen to her limits in return. Most people agree a safeword, a word that stops everything at once, and she can end the session whenever she wishes. Everything is agreed between consenting adults, and she can decline anything, however it’s listed. If you’re new to this, say so. Starting lightly is never a mistake.

Booking a session

Mention BDSM when you call or WhatsApp, and say roughly what you have in mind: would you like her to lead or to follow, and anything specific such as restraints or role play. We’ll check with her first. A longer booking leaves room for the conversation at the start and some quiet time at the end, which matters more than people expect.

Price

Rates are for time and companionship. Nothing extra is charged for BDSM unless she says so on her profile, though longer sessions naturally cost more, and outcall costs a little more than incall because she travels to you.

For a gentler introduction, our guide to domination and submission covers roles and etiquette. You might also look at domination escorts, who are more numerous, or submissive escorts if you’d prefer to take the lead yourself.

New to it? Our guide to what BDSM means explains the four letters, consent and safe words before you book.